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I'm going to get on my soap box for a moment here...
If you can't be honest with each other, you lose from the beginning.
Staying with him just for sex.
Here's an idea. Try replacing jealousy, control, and ownership with forgiveness, acceptance, and unconditional love in all of your relationships. You'll be much happier in all areas of your life once you let go of fear and wanting to control others. Really - give it a try...
In modern society, many people mistake a romantic relationship, for a purchase contract. If we could simply understand that we do not and should not 'own' or try to control another person, there would be no jealously.
In summary...
Should I stay with him just for the sex? Or should I make him make a choice of getting no sex unless he's willing to make the relationship work between us? What should I do?
Instead, take some time to REALLY get to know each other on an honest and very deep level. This is that heart to heart discussion that I mentioned at the beginning.
What is a relationship?
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The Answer: Our answer to this question may seem controversial to some, but here goes...
Jealousy and fear are engrained in our society and encouraged by governments and religions to exercise control over the population. That's why when you get married, you sign a "marriage contract", to take possession of your spouse... (I warned you this was going to be a little controversial.)
Friendship, is a relationship that results when two people have found a common ground and consists of mutual love, trust, respect, and unconditional acceptance of one another.
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Jealousy can be defined as "a boundary-setting custom developed for limiting sexual access to those relationships that a group defines [url=http://www.1855sacramento.com/peuterey.php]giubbotti peuterey[/url] as important." It's that feeling of fear, suspicion, or envy over something you perceive as your possession.
A brief discussion on jealousy.
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A relationship can be defined as "a state of connectedness between people". Because of the fact that the two of you have a child together, you will always have a parental relationship and parental responsibilities. The choice that each of you have to [url=http://www.achbanker.com/home.php]hollister[/url] make is what type of [url=http://www.1855sacramento.com/woolrich.php]woolrich bologna[/url] relationship you want in addition to being the parents of your daughter.
Take a step back to understand the reasons that you want to have sex with each other. Are you trying to fill an emotional void? Trying to hold on to previous feeling about each other? [url=http://www.achbanker.com/home.php]www.achbanker.com/home.php[/url] Do you [url=http://www.vivid-host.com/barbour.htm]barbour uk[/url] simply enjoy it? What are your personal reasons? Make sure they resonate true to you and actually [url=http://www.buynflticketsonline.com]Cheap NFL Tickets[/url] bring you joy. Don't do it for the wrong reasons.
I recommend that the two of you have a heart to heart, open and honest discussion about what you both want and are willing to accept around your relationship as adults and your relationship as parents.
Spend some time with yourself to understand what you really want out of the relationship. Talk to each other openly and honestly about what type of relationship your both want and will agree upon - and stick to it. Replace jealousy, control, and ownership with forgiveness, acceptance, and unconditional love.
An intimate relationship is [url=http://www.1855sacramento.com/peuterey.php]peuterey outlet[/url] a relationship with a great deal of physical and/or emotional intimacy - romantic or passionate love and attachment with or without sex.
Here are just a few ideas:
My advice on this one - Don't ever push a man, or anyone else, into a corner by forcing a decision like that, they'll run every time :-).
A casual relationship (sometimes referred to as "friends with benefits") is the physical and emotional relationship between two unmarried people who have a sexual relationship or a near-sexual relationship without necessarily demanding or expecting a more formal relationship as a goal.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with having sex just for the sake of good sex! IF you're both emotionally mature enough to enjoy it without feeling guilty or trying to make the other person feel guilty.
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It is critical to check your ego at the door.
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