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Sometimes, however, we run out of time. Life only lasts so long, and we never know exactly how long. In addition, our energy to tread difficult paths lasts even less, and if we wait too long, we will end up permanently lost deep in the woods with no way out, both in this lifetime and the next.
And as we tread our different paths over a lifetime, we eventually get intimations about the paths, and whether they really offer a way out of our woods or not. And we discover an interesting thing; that the paths that were most enjoyable, where we had a good time and made many new friends, eventually circled until we found ourselves back in the same old woods with the same old problems, and nothing changed except for perhaps a little entertainment that could never sustain itself. We were just in a different section of the forest, but we weren't free.
Then one day, without warning, we might stumble across the right path, by accident, the path to complete freedom. But it is a difficult path, fraught with dangers, and thorns, and it is rocky not smooth, and not enjoyable at all, and we quickly leave this difficult path because we are not happy treading it.
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If only someone was there to tell us that the difficult path is the one that grants freedom. Then we might have more of an interest to follow it, difficult as it is. But we can't be sure, so we continue to take the paths of least resistance, and enjoy ourselves, but the enjoyment turns out to be only one side of a coin that has suffering on the other side.
After many years and many paths, we might again look for the path that will take us out of our constant angst, which seems to be increasing. And although we keep blaming our discontent on the woods, we begin to realize that perhaps the forest is not the problem at all; perhaps we, ourselves are the problem.
So this time we are a little more open to difficult paths because we are learning that while easy ones seem to go somewhere, they in fact go nowhere, and the difficult ones do go somewhere, but they are not easy, and end up not at all where we expected them to go.

They go inward, toward ourselves, and this is the most harrowing discovery of all; that we can never escape the woods if we carry ourselves along. And that even within the confines of the woods is [url=http://www.sandvikfw.net/shopuk.php]hollister outlet sale[/url] an escape if we can only have the courage to follow the path of greatest resistance to what our minds have told us mistakenly about freedom in the past. Our minds lied to us, telling us to seek happiness, and all we found was discontent. And our minds told us to make friends and to enjoy life, but all we found was constant disappointment.
So now we decide to take the rugged path, where we don't seek happiness any longer. Now we get serious. We decide to put up with "self-imposed discontent" to solve the "free-radical discontent" that seems [url=http://www.sandvikfw.net/shopuk.php]hollister sale[/url] to come out of left field and whack us constantly.
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And these are the signs, this self-effacement, humility, and humbleness, that we have finally found our path, the one that will grant us the total freedom that is our heritage.
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E. Raymond Rock of Fort Myers, Florida is cofounder and principal teacher at the Southwest Florida Insight Center, His twenty-nine years of meditation experience has taken him across four continents, including two stopovers in Thailand where he practiced in the remote northeast forests as an ordained Theravada Buddhist monk. His book, A Year to Enlightenment (Career Press/New Page Books) is now available at major bookstores and online retailers. Visit

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